Understanding Dog Body Language Around Your Baby and How Dog Meets Baby Can Help

I need your help!

Every week at Dog Meets Baby, we receive the same three messages from parents (usually with a video attached):

“Is this interaction between my dog and child safe?” 

“I feel like my dog doesn’t really like my baby. What can I do to help them?” 

“My dog is always licking and approaching my child. Is that a good sign? Or should I stop my dog from doing it?” 

If any of those sound familiar, you are in the right place. Understanding your dog's body language around your baby is one of the most important things you can do to keep your family safe and it's also one of the trickiest things to get right, even for experienced dog owners. 

Why Dog Body Language Is So Easy to Misread

Dog body language is both simple and nuanced. It is fairly easy to learn the basics, like a lip lick, whale eye (where the whites of the eyes are showing), a dog moving away, or a happy "helicopter" tail wag. The second step—and where it gets complicated—is taking into account the dog's entire body, the context of the interaction, and what you know about your individual dog.

I always tell parents that management is only as good as your knowledge of a dog's body language. If you are looking at your toddler kissing and hugging your dog and don't know what your dog is communicating with their body language, you might end up filming a snap or a bite. Sadly, this is a true story, and not just a one-time occurrence.

How To Read A Dog’s Body Language: BFFs or Barely Tolerating? 

If you looked at those first two photos and thought they were 'sweet,' you aren't alone! Most people see a hug; they don’t see the tension.

Understanding the difference between a dog who is 'tolerating' and a dog who is 'enjoying' is the key to a safe home.

The good news: it's a skill you can learn. And there are several ways Dog Meets Baby can help you do exactly that — from free resources on Instagram, to online courses with real video examples, to personalised expert feedback on your own dog-and-baby videos.

How Dog Meets Baby Can Help You Understand Your Dog 

There is no single resource that works for every family. So at Dog Meets Baby, we've built several layers of support — free resources you can access right now, in-depth courses for deeper learning, and personalized expert feedback when you need a second pair of eyes on your specific situation.

Free Learning: Instagram Reels and Body Language Quizzes

When I first started Dog Meets Baby, I was doing dog body language quizzes in Instagram Stories. I will never forget the first time I posted a quiz, went to bed not thinking much about it, and woke up to 200+ messages (my account was really small back then). 

The quizzes became my flagship feature. They not only helped me grow my account, but also helped many parents learn about whale eyes, stress yawns, lip and nose licks, or the many meanings behind licking. 

I could tell that with each quiz, there were more correct answers, which made me so proud of the community! That’s exactly how you get better at understanding a dog’s body language, through focused observation of many dogs in different situations.

Instagram Stories disappear after 24 hours, glitch, and are short. I switched to posting Reels with my analysis. The Reel with Nora has been one of my most-watched videos. However, Reels eventually get buried in the feed, which is not ideal.

Dog Meets Baby Body Language Course

To provide a permanent resource, I created the Dog Body Language Course with videos generously shared by the parents from the Dog Meets Baby community. 

In the course, I narrate each video, sharing what I observe. Arrows point out changes in the dog’s body language, with short descriptions, and each video ends with my recommendations for making the interactions safer. 

First Meeting Course: Bringing Home Your Newborn

The moment your dog meets your newborn is so emotionally charged that it can be genuinely hard to tell if your dog is okay or not. The First Meeting Course is built for exactly that situation. The course includes baseline videos, so you can see what 'mildly unsure but fine' actually looks like, versus 'separate your dog immediately.' I want the parents to be present in that moment, not anxious about it. 

Based on the messages and reviews we have received, the videos in both courses have been invaluable in learning about and understanding your dog’s body language - which makes us so happy, as that is exactly why we created them!

Video Analysis: Personalized Expert Feedback on Your Dog and Baby

The messages asking us for feedback on the videos never stopped…I have always analyzed videos in private consultations, but not everyone needs a full consultation, and it is not in everyone’s budget. 

I 100% understand the need for feedback from an expert, because I reach out for help myself.

I graduated from the Academy for Dog Trainers, and we have a support group where the trainers share more complicated cases to get advice on. I have shared videos (with the parents’ permission) when I wasn’t sure about the dog’s communication, and having this support has been invaluable. 

We brainstormed at Dog Meets Baby, and recently, launched a new service that is exactly what parents have been asking us for over the last 5 years. 

What It Is

You submit up to three videos — up to five minutes total — and within five business days, you receive a recorded video analysis from a Dog Meets Baby trainer walking you through what they observe, what it means, and what specific next steps they recommend.

This service is perfect if you:

  • Want reassurance or clarification on what you're seeing
  • Want to double-check your understanding of your dog's body language around your child
  • Want guidance on how to make interactions safer, better, and more positive

Common scenarios parents submit include:

  • The first meeting between a dog and a newborn
  • The dog's body language around the baby (e.g., licking, approaching, but showing many signs of stress, or not moving away but looking uncomfortable)
  • The dog's reaction to the child petting, giving treats, playing, etc.
  • The home setup before or after baby arrives

How It Works

Important!

If your dog has a history of bites or has shown warning signs such as growling, lunging, showing teeth, or snapping, a private consultation is the more appropriate next step. We do not address medical issues.

Private Consultation: A Comprehensive Plan for Your Family

When you need more than a moment-in-time analysis, you want a comprehensive look at your dog's history, your home setup, and a detailed long-term plan, a private consultation with Dominika is the right fit.

Private consultations are recommended when you're dealing with multiple concerns at once, need face-to-face support, or want a complete strategy rather than feedback on specific moments.

Video Analysis vs. Private Consultation

Both services offer expert Dog Meets Baby guidance — the difference is scope and format.

  • Video Analysis is feedback on specific moments you capture on video. It is great for reassurance, quick guidance, and body language checks on a particular interaction.
  • Private Consultation takes a comprehensive look at your dog's full history, training, and home setup, and creates a detailed plan. It's the right fit if you need a long-term strategy, want to address multiple aspects of your situation at once, or want face-to-face interaction with Dominika, Dog Meets Baby founder.